when u need love too much
cuz we are not accepted all the time..
and when love is someone's priority
we tend to get frustrated at not receiving that love
the people u meet.. the maturity level of the people u meet..
is determined by you yourself...
the higher you take yourself in the
social system the better people you will meet
ur pitying yourself abit too much
u must learn to manage your life erika
because if u are doing it.. u will be able to control ur needs
and wants... in accordance to reality...
thats what i call managing urself
ur needs are controlling u
u are not controlling urself
u gotta take a step back.. open your mind..
look at others. if you think you're special..
you think you're the only one who is "stuck"...
First of all, you're extremely self-conscious..
of who you are.. and the image you portray to people..
what they perceive of you as well..
you have this urge to be significant in society..
this has inherent negative impacts on you as a person..
look at yourself.. and the position you have put yourself into..
sometimes u just gotta take things easy in life... really.
you just hate urself for being fat.
and that's like so fcukin common.
but people learn to take things easy.
they face rejection too. but they're dealign with it.
why? why are you not? why they are?
yes of coz... just to the ppl u care about.
u want a good image. ur self-conscious...
subconsciously you're OVERLY self-conscious..
u wanna be hot. u wanna be sexy. u wanna be wanted.
and that's not easy, erika
u can't understand urself until u just stop still..
press the pause button..
and look at ur situation. you are just Killing urself..
no1's killing u right now..
u dun understand urself?
U DO... u know u do..
u just need to accept the fact that u need to loosen up
cuz of yer attitude .. you may have a sexy personality... yes its sexy
but its not independent
you dont think deep
get out of ur body now.. imagine urself crying over ur poor fat body.
get into third person view...
imagine yourself as Oprah winfrey... she loves her life doesnt she..
she loves her job.. shes not hot.. shes not sexy...
imagine u as oprah winfrey looking down at yourself...
what wud u think of this girl named erika..
whining about all these things in life..
u really think shes really trying to get somewhere? Come on.
strengthen ur attitude
ur esteem
ure courage
ure vision
ur mission
ur purpose
you dont have anything sorted out.
ur just all out to look hot and sexy
when u have urself sorted out...
when u have a reason for ur existence..
u know what you stand for.. u know where ur going..
u know what youre gonna achieve..
u know where you will stand in the social structure one day..
you know you can handle people..
u have confidence in your attitude...
you have a strong personality and self-representation
which overcomes your undesirable appearance..
...... if you have all these....
erika u will be a totally different person...
the way i see it. im telling u... heart-to-heart...
i can see the way out for u but u think im rattling the same old thing
and u've heard all these before.. and u know all these
u have no aims la. no goals. no achievement-schedule.
you're going nowhere in life..
have your life planned out.. what is your passion...
that's why i always tell my sec sch frens...
plan ur life now. ur ambitions
it sets everything.. ur behaviour.. ur attitude..
and ur resilience in everything u do
if you dont like ur life to be planned out..
be prepared to go in circles...
Erika... your youth is your potential pool...
youre wasting your potential right now
if you dont have the money.. u need the knowledge..
and u need to follow the education system
too bad sg's education system is rigid
so if u cant adapt... u cant push urself
then ull just fall erika
and that is social darwinism in practice
do you understand? if you can accept this ... at heart.
u will be a much more straightforward person in terms of your thinking
but if you are resistant to change.. to shaping yourself...
then i'm sorry. because other people are succeeding
life is a process... it is a journey..
you cannot set on a journey without planning your route
and what u have to do to get there... do u agree
imagine not planning anything... ur going nowhere.
u'll end up just another redundant human.. wasting our resources..
u know it. but you're not following the principle
so ask urself.. now what can you do... i can't advise u on this..
its ur life.. u decide.
and if you wanna really see how open-minded i am.. then hear this.
Your life is a journey. some people have plans for them.
exact plans. they know what they want to be.
they have a purpose. when that purpose is broken.
they have lost all that they have fought for.
Look at hitler, he lost everything he fought for.
he killed himself.. knowing he had lost his own battle.
Likewise... if you can't find a purpose or vision in your life..
if you're really getting nowhere..
and you really don't want to get anywhere.
it's no harm just killing yourself. it's really your choice.
your existence is your choice. That's how open i really am.
towards anything. if you wanna kill yourself go ahead..
if you wanna keep trying, then keep working hard... and breaking sweat
we as a human race need people who exert influence.. take us somewhere.
we don't want people dragging the population
down with them as they tumble under their own foundation.
we want a mature society.
if you think being slim is all that life is about.
then go ahead.. dedicate your life to being slim.
all you will be is a guy-magnet.. and you have no idea
what hard lives guy-magnets have... the kinda guys u meet...
it is a source of the problem...
and you must know how to put a plug on that source..
its like a bottle of toxic waste pouring down on you..
like I said. figure out how to snap out of that mindset.
if you can't then you just suck.
you have a weak character. that much I can say.
i won't offer you any sympathy.
because i respect the many people who have tried so hard to do this...
and at the same time working on their lives! their purpose and so on..
it takes just strength. its really that simple.. stop trying to explain urself
u have a nice character. pleasant.. inviting.. fun-loving.
but you are dependent.. weak.. easily affected.. easily floundered...
you have a terribly weak foundation
so are u gonna run 20km or try change ur character...
make a choice. i would say...either u change ur character..
or u do both. rather than run 20km alone
ASK YOURSELF why you dont care.. dont ask me...
im not u... the simplest answer i can give you.. is that youre stupid.
the underlying reasons u have to find out urself
be an independent critical thinker.. a logical thinker..
a forward-minded visionary..
these are all values we die to learn.
i bet you dont give a shit. you'll just say "i know all those"...
trust me everyone knows. the difference is whether u can learn them
cuz we are not accepted all the time..
and when love is someone's priority
we tend to get frustrated at not receiving that love
the people u meet.. the maturity level of the people u meet..
is determined by you yourself...
the higher you take yourself in the
social system the better people you will meet
ur pitying yourself abit too much
u must learn to manage your life erika
because if u are doing it.. u will be able to control ur needs
and wants... in accordance to reality...
thats what i call managing urself
ur needs are controlling u
u are not controlling urself
u gotta take a step back.. open your mind..
look at others. if you think you're special..
you think you're the only one who is "stuck"...
First of all, you're extremely self-conscious..
of who you are.. and the image you portray to people..
what they perceive of you as well..
you have this urge to be significant in society..
this has inherent negative impacts on you as a person..
look at yourself.. and the position you have put yourself into..
sometimes u just gotta take things easy in life... really.
you just hate urself for being fat.
and that's like so fcukin common.
but people learn to take things easy.
they face rejection too. but they're dealign with it.
why? why are you not? why they are?
yes of coz... just to the ppl u care about.
u want a good image. ur self-conscious...
subconsciously you're OVERLY self-conscious..
u wanna be hot. u wanna be sexy. u wanna be wanted.
and that's not easy, erika
u can't understand urself until u just stop still..
press the pause button..
and look at ur situation. you are just Killing urself..
no1's killing u right now..
u dun understand urself?
U DO... u know u do..
u just need to accept the fact that u need to loosen up
cuz of yer attitude .. you may have a sexy personality... yes its sexy
but its not independent
you dont think deep
get out of ur body now.. imagine urself crying over ur poor fat body.
get into third person view...
imagine yourself as Oprah winfrey... she loves her life doesnt she..
she loves her job.. shes not hot.. shes not sexy...
imagine u as oprah winfrey looking down at yourself...
what wud u think of this girl named erika..
whining about all these things in life..
u really think shes really trying to get somewhere? Come on.
strengthen ur attitude
ur esteem
ure courage
ure vision
ur mission
ur purpose
you dont have anything sorted out.
ur just all out to look hot and sexy
when u have urself sorted out...
when u have a reason for ur existence..
u know what you stand for.. u know where ur going..
u know what youre gonna achieve..
u know where you will stand in the social structure one day..
you know you can handle people..
u have confidence in your attitude...
you have a strong personality and self-representation
which overcomes your undesirable appearance..
...... if you have all these....
erika u will be a totally different person...
the way i see it. im telling u... heart-to-heart...
i can see the way out for u but u think im rattling the same old thing
and u've heard all these before.. and u know all these
u have no aims la. no goals. no achievement-schedule.
you're going nowhere in life..
have your life planned out.. what is your passion...
that's why i always tell my sec sch frens...
plan ur life now. ur ambitions
it sets everything.. ur behaviour.. ur attitude..
and ur resilience in everything u do
if you dont like ur life to be planned out..
be prepared to go in circles...
Erika... your youth is your potential pool...
youre wasting your potential right now
if you dont have the money.. u need the knowledge..
and u need to follow the education system
too bad sg's education system is rigid
so if u cant adapt... u cant push urself
then ull just fall erika
and that is social darwinism in practice
do you understand? if you can accept this ... at heart.
u will be a much more straightforward person in terms of your thinking
but if you are resistant to change.. to shaping yourself...
then i'm sorry. because other people are succeeding
life is a process... it is a journey..
you cannot set on a journey without planning your route
and what u have to do to get there... do u agree
imagine not planning anything... ur going nowhere.
u'll end up just another redundant human.. wasting our resources..
u know it. but you're not following the principle
so ask urself.. now what can you do... i can't advise u on this..
its ur life.. u decide.
and if you wanna really see how open-minded i am.. then hear this.
Your life is a journey. some people have plans for them.
exact plans. they know what they want to be.
they have a purpose. when that purpose is broken.
they have lost all that they have fought for.
Look at hitler, he lost everything he fought for.
he killed himself.. knowing he had lost his own battle.
Likewise... if you can't find a purpose or vision in your life..
if you're really getting nowhere..
and you really don't want to get anywhere.
it's no harm just killing yourself. it's really your choice.
your existence is your choice. That's how open i really am.
towards anything. if you wanna kill yourself go ahead..
if you wanna keep trying, then keep working hard... and breaking sweat
we as a human race need people who exert influence.. take us somewhere.
we don't want people dragging the population
down with them as they tumble under their own foundation.
we want a mature society.
if you think being slim is all that life is about.
then go ahead.. dedicate your life to being slim.
all you will be is a guy-magnet.. and you have no idea
what hard lives guy-magnets have... the kinda guys u meet...
it is a source of the problem...
and you must know how to put a plug on that source..
its like a bottle of toxic waste pouring down on you..
like I said. figure out how to snap out of that mindset.
if you can't then you just suck.
you have a weak character. that much I can say.
i won't offer you any sympathy.
because i respect the many people who have tried so hard to do this...
and at the same time working on their lives! their purpose and so on..
it takes just strength. its really that simple.. stop trying to explain urself
u have a nice character. pleasant.. inviting.. fun-loving.
but you are dependent.. weak.. easily affected.. easily floundered...
you have a terribly weak foundation
so are u gonna run 20km or try change ur character...
make a choice. i would say...either u change ur character..
or u do both. rather than run 20km alone
ASK YOURSELF why you dont care.. dont ask me...
im not u... the simplest answer i can give you.. is that youre stupid.
the underlying reasons u have to find out urself
be an independent critical thinker.. a logical thinker..
a forward-minded visionary..
these are all values we die to learn.
i bet you dont give a shit. you'll just say "i know all those"...
trust me everyone knows. the difference is whether u can learn them
NOW THE WHOLE WORLD KNOWS.
so before you tell me you're sick of my
emo-ness or just tired of being around
my .. whats that word... "boring" side.
i should tell u, i was sick of it before
you or anyone else.
im like that because i think too much
and im still tryn to get out of it.
